Why choose a Loving Relationship Coaching Program?

A Loving Relationship Coaching program is aimed at partners who experience problems in the Relationship sphere and want to work on themselves first and foremost.

Love partners who have come to understand that they themselves play a role in a relationship dynamic that contributes to the fact that Love no longer flows:

• For partners who don’t want to end their relationship just because Love doesn’t flow anymore.
• For partners who want to understand what role they play in the dynamics that have arisen and are willing to investigate how they can exert their influence on rekindling the fire in the relationship.
• For partners who are committed to giving love to themselves and thus reconnect with the love for their partner.

 For whom is coaching suitable?

Coaching is for anyone who wants to function more powerfully, purposefully and effectively.
AND
Is willing to look in the mirror and get started with what is needed to achieve the desired goals.

What does a Coaching process look like?

The process starts with formulating a number of clear desired goals:

• What would you like to achieve?
• What would you like to develop?
• How would you like to develop yourself?

If you are not yet able to formulate these questions clearly for yourself, I will of course help you with that.

Then, in each coaching session, we will work with examples of events and situations and I will teach you how to deal with them in a successful and effective way.

Examples of problems you may encounter:

Communication Problems:

• You have difficulty communicating your feelings and needs in a clear and assertive way with your partner.
• You don’t listen to your partner properly or misinterpret what they say.
• You have conflicts that escalate into arguments or silence.

Unrealistic expectations:

• You have unrealistic expectations about what your partner can and should give you in the relationship.
• You compare your partner to others or to an ideal image in your head.
• You’re disappointed when your partner doesn’t live up to your expectations.

Problems with setting boundaries:

• You have trouble setting boundaries in the relationship and let your partner overrun you.
• You say yes too often when you want to say no, which makes you feel respected.
• Your partner is crossing your boundaries and you don’t know how to deal with it.

Trust Issues:

• You have trouble trusting your partner as a result of previous experiences or insecurities.
• You are jealous or possessive and constantly control your partner.
• You feel like your partner isn’t treating you fairly or is hiding something from you.

Dependency and co-dependency:

• You feel empty or completely lost without your partner.
• You base your self-esteem on your partner’s approval.
• You have trouble making decisions or doing anything without your partner.

Neglect of one’s own needs:

• You always put your partner’s needs first and forget about your own.
• You don’t make time for your hobbies, friends, or family.
• You lose your own identity in the relationship.

Unresolved Past Trauma:

• Unresolved traumas from previous relationships or your childhood influence your current relationship pattern.
• You have trouble letting go of your fears and insecurities.
• You unconsciously attract partners who trigger your old pain points.

Differences in values and goals:

• You and your partner have different values and goals in life.
• You disagree on important issues such as children, finances or housing.
• You see the future differently and don’t know if you want to continue together.

Lack of intimacy and sexual connection:

• You experience a lack of emotional or physical intimacy with your partner.
• You have little or no sexual activity anymore.
• You no longer feel attractive to your partner or vice versa.

Let’s have an introductory meeting and see if I can help you with that!

What can you expect from me?

That I work in a Respectful, Personal, Confrontational and Goal-oriented way.

Are you curious about what I can do for you?

One of the most important factors of a successful coaching process is the click between coachee and coach.
I attach great importance to a good personal click, so every process starts with an introductory meeting.

Use this button to request for an introductory appointment,
and I will get back to you as soon as possible.