How I work
How I work I don’t give advice.I help you see. And in that seeing, direction emerges. What I do is not a method.It is being present with what is difficult.It is asking questions that help you look deeper.It is…
Silence as power
Silence as power In silence, you hear what the hustle and bustle drowns out.That’s why you avoid silence. Because in silence, the questions you don’t have answers to, arise.In silence, you feel what you push away with activity.In silence,…
What you already know, but don’t mention
What you already know, but don’t mention The answers you seek are not outside of you.They are in what you already feel, but don’t dare to say yet. You know what is no longer right.You feel what needs to…
Self Employment (Independence) as a Question of Identity
Self Employment Independence as a Question of Identity Becoming self-employed is not a business decision.It is a question of identity. The question is not: can I be an entrepreneur?The question is: who am I without this structure? Because structures…
Burnout as a warning sign
Burnout as a warning sign Burnout is not a weakness.It is a signal that you have ignored for too long. A signal that your system has been trying to tell you for months, maybe years:This is no longer right.…
The moment of surrender
The moment of surrender There comes a moment when you stop fighting.Not because you give up. But because you understand. You understand that what you wanted to let go of has long since been let go.That what you tried…
How peace arises
How peace arises Peace does not come from doing less.But from doing what is right. You can have a schedule full of things that give you energy.Or an empty schedule and still feel restless. Peace is not the absence…
Making decisions based on clarity
Making decisions based on clarity The best decisions are not made under pressure.But from a place of calm. When you are under pressure, you often make choices based on fear.Fear of making the wrong choice. Fear of failure. Fear…
Why standard methods don’t work
Why standard methods don’t work There is no formula for finding meaning.No step-by-step plan that works for everyone. Yet we search for it.For the method. The framework. The five steps to clarity. But meaning cannot be captured in a…
Responsibility without direction
Responsibility without direction Leaders are used to taking responsibility.But what if you no longer know what for? You make decisions. You bear the consequences. You maintain an overview.But inside, there is a question that keeps getting louder: Why am…
The transition curve
The transition curve Transition has its own pace.You cannot force it. But you can understand where you are. Every transition has phases: First, there is resistance. You keep doing what you did, even though it no longer works.Then comes…
Patterns that hold you back
Patterns that hold you back What made you successful can hold you back.Not because it is bad, but because the context has changed. Your qualities are context-dependent.What is a strength in one situation can become a limitation in another.…