Frederik de Lang

How patterns arise

  How patterns arise Patterns are not who you are.They are what you did when it worked. You developed strategies.Ways to deal with pressure, expectations, uncertainty.And those strategies worked. For a while. But contexts change.And what worked then no longer…

Authenticity without compromise

  Authenticity without compromise Being authentic does not mean giving up everything.It means choosing based on what is truly important. There is a misconception that authenticity requires radical change.That you have to let go of everything to be yourself. But…

The myth of balance

  The myth of balance Balance is not a point you reach.It is an ongoing conversation with yourself. We search for the perfect balance.The moment when everything is right and we finally find peace. But that moment never comes.Because life…

How I work

  How I work I don’t give advice.I help you see. And in that seeing, direction emerges. What I do is not a method.It is being present with what is difficult.It is asking questions that help you look deeper.It is…

Silence as power

  Silence as power In silence, you hear what the hustle and bustle drowns out.That’s why you avoid silence. Because in silence, the questions you don’t have answers to, arise.In silence, you feel what you push away with activity.In silence,…