Frederik de Lang

The moment of surrender

  The moment of surrender There comes a moment when you stop fighting.Not because you give up. But because you understand. You understand that what you wanted to let go of has long since been let go.That what you tried…

How peace arises

  How peace arises Peace does not come from doing less.But from doing what is right. You can have a schedule full of things that give you energy.Or an empty schedule and still feel restless. Peace is not the absence…

Responsibility without direction

  Responsibility without direction Leaders are used to taking responsibility.But what if you no longer know what for? You make decisions. You bear the consequences. You maintain an overview.But inside, there is a question that keeps getting louder: Why am…

The transition curve

  The transition curve Transition has its own pace.You cannot force it. But you can understand where you are. Every transition has phases: First, there is resistance. You keep doing what you did, even though it no longer works.Then comes…

Patterns that hold you back

  Patterns that hold you back What made you successful can hold you back.Not because it is bad, but because the context has changed. Your qualities are context-dependent.What is a strength in one situation can become a limitation in another.…

Inner turmoil vs. Outer stability

  Inner turmoil vs. Outer stability From the outside, everything looks fine.A great job. A stable income. Respect.But inside, it’s different. There’s a restlessness you can’t quite place.A feeling of loss you can’t quite put your finger on.A sense that…