Frederik de Lang

The myth of balance

  The myth of balance Balance is not a point you reach.It is an ongoing conversation with yourself. We search for the perfect balance.The moment when everything is right and we finally find peace. But that moment never comes.Because life…

How I work

  How I work I don’t give advice.I help you see. And in that seeing, direction emerges. What I do is not a method.It is being present with what is difficult.It is asking questions that help you look deeper.It is…

Silence as power

  Silence as power In silence, you hear what the hustle and bustle drowns out.That’s why you avoid silence. Because in silence, the questions you don’t have answers to, arise.In silence, you feel what you push away with activity.In silence,…

The moment of surrender

  The moment of surrender There comes a moment when you stop fighting.Not because you give up. But because you understand. You understand that what you wanted to let go of has long since been let go.That what you tried…

How peace arises

  How peace arises Peace does not come from doing less.But from doing what is right. You can have a schedule full of things that give you energy.Or an empty schedule and still feel restless. Peace is not the absence…