The price of perfection
The price of perfection There is a pattern that I see time and time again in leaders. The pattern of perfection. Everything has to be right.Everything has to be good.Everything has to be better than good. And it works.…
Trust in the process
Trust in the process The hardest part of transition is not the change itself.It is trusting in the process. Trusting that everything will be okay, even if you don’t know how.Trusting that there is a way, even if you…
What if you look back in five years?
What if you look back in five years? Imagine it’s five years later. You look back on this moment.The moment when you felt that something had to change.The moment when you knew that the old way was no longer…
The voice you follow
The voice you follow There are two voices inside you. One voice is loud.Urgent. Certain. Persuasive.It is the voice of fear, disguised as wisdom. The other voice is soft.Patient. Calm. Honest.It is the voice of your conscience. The loud…
What guidance is not
What guidance is not Let me be clear about what guidance is not. It is not therapy.I am not a therapist who analyzes your past. It is not coaching.I do not give you assignments or step-by-step plans to follow.…
Why rationalizing doesn’t help
Why rationalizing doesn’t help Leaders are masters of rationalization. They can explain every feeling.Think away every doubt.Make every fear logical. “It’s not the right time yet.”“The circumstances aren’t ideal.”“I have to take care of this and that first.” And…
The question that changes everything
The question that changes everything In every Clarity Call, there comes a moment. A moment when the words stop. And the truth begins. It’s often the moment when I ask a question. Not a clever question. Not a strategic…
The difference between 3, 6 and 9 months
The difference between 3, 6 and 9 months People often ask me: which programme is right for me? The answer depends on where you are and what you need. 3 months:For specific blockages.For clarity when making a concrete choice.For…
When success is no longer the answer
When success is no longer the answer Success answers many questions.But not the most important ones. Success answers: am I good enough?But not: am I happy? Success answers: am I appreciated?But not: do I feel fulfilled? Success answers: am…
Why some things take time
Why some things take time You cannot make a tree grow by pulling on its branches. Change has its own pace.And respecting that pace is not passive waiting.It is being actively present. Being present with what is difficult.Being present…